An Equation That Will Change Your Dating Life
I wish someone had shown me this 20 years ago
Are you ever frustrated by the results you’re getting?
You’re not alone — especially when it comes to dating.
Every day, I talk to people who aren’t getting the outcomes they want. These are well-meaning and talented individuals, yet things aren’t happening as planned.
What often follows is a wave of self-blame, overthinking and distress.
I've been there and know how easy it is to fall into this trap. If you keep experiencing disappointment, it’s natural to start pointing the finger at yourself and wonder, “What’s wrong with me?”.
This is completely human. We all do it. The only problem is it often makes things far worse!
That’s because we end up hyper-fixating on outcomes and taking responsibility for things beyond our control.
We then lose focus on the process and don’t take the necessary actions to create the desired result.
Dating is a prime example of this.
- How often do people criticise the apps and then give up entirely?
- How often do people take it personally that another person isn’t changing?
