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Your Romantic Relationships Are A Metaphor For Your Life

How you are in love has more of an impact than you think

Manj Bahra
7 min readApr 24, 2021

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Develop your senses- especially learn how to see. Realize that everything connects to everything else.” — Leonardo Da Vinci

Many of us go through life believing our problems are isolated to specific areas. When we face struggles in our career, we dust off our CV and scout for new opportunities or qualifications. If we don’t like the look of our bodies, we hire a trainer or search for the perfect routine/diet combination. It’s no surprise that when we face challenges in love, we believe it to be just another section of life that can be treated in its own context.

As alluded to by the infamous artist above, life is far more connected than that. I can tell you from years of experience, coaching 100s of clients, what you think to be an issue in your relationship is almost always something bigger. How you behave in romance will seep through every area of your life and impact you in ways you are not yet aware of.

If you follow my work on Medium, you will know that I often write about the pain of unrequited love. Part of that is my passion for helping people overcome one of the most agonising human experiences. The other part stems from my wider belief that improving the quality of your…

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Manj Bahra
Modern Dating Wisdom

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