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Burned Out by Dating? Fix These 6 Triggers
Burned Out by Dating? Fix These 6 Triggers
Taking a break won’t help…
Manj Bahra
May 21
The 5 Stages of Modern Dating
The 5 Stages of Modern Dating
Feeling lost in love? Use this framework to cut through the noise and start rewriting your story.
Manj Bahra
May 6
How to Stop Falling for Emotionally Unavailable Men
How to Stop Falling for Emotionally Unavailable Men
4 Steps That Will Change Everything
Manj Bahra
Apr 7
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We Have Great Connection — Why Won’t He Commit?
We Have Great Connection — Why Won’t He Commit?
Men are different — here’s what you need to know
Manj Bahra
Jul 9, 2024
The 5 Stages of Moving On from Heartbreak
The 5 Stages of Moving On from Heartbreak
What to expect on your healing journey — my insights from five years of relationship coaching
Manj Bahra
Jan 25, 2024
The Hidden Force Holding You Back in Dating
The Hidden Force Holding You Back in Dating
An uncomfortable truth you need to hear
Manj Bahra
Jan 21
The Mental Model That Changed My Life
The Mental Model That Changed My Life
Feel like nothing’s working? This is for you.
Manj Bahra
Jan 23
Why Unrequited Love Is The Greatest Gift
Why Unrequited Love Is The Greatest Gift
Stop resisting rejection and grab the golden opportunity at hand
Manj Bahra
May 22, 2021
How to Deal with Mixed Signals (Without Losing Your Mind)
How to Deal with Mixed Signals (Without Losing Your Mind)
Don’t make this critical mistake…
Manj Bahra
Jan 27
Stop Pretending You Want To Be Friends With Your Crush
Stop Pretending You Want To Be Friends With Your Crush
Sometimes you just need to be honest instead of putting yourself through more pain
Manj Bahra
Apr 13, 2020
Three Principles For The First Date
Three Principles For The First Date
Want to get the most out of a first date as quickly as possible? This is the guide for you.
Manj Bahra
Apr 17, 2023
Why I Changed My Mind On Marriage
Why I Changed My Mind On Marriage
Is marriage a good idea, or an antiquated institution due for decommission?
Manj Bahra
Mar 19, 2020
Some People Are Not Meant For You — and That's OK
Some People Are Not Meant For You — and That's OK
Not everything is meant to be, yet everything happens for a reason.
Manj Bahra
Aug 12, 2022
5 Early Signs He Won’t Commit
5 Early Signs He Won’t Commit
How to spot warning signals before it’s too late
Manj Bahra
Aug 23, 2024
How To Create A Product That Doesn’t Suck, But Over-Delivers
How To Create A Product That Doesn’t Suck, But Over-Delivers
A simple process to keep you focused on what matters — the customer
Manj Bahra
Jan 19, 2020
Are You A Gollum In Dating?
Are You A Gollum In Dating?
The brutal truth about most rejection
Manj Bahra
Jul 6, 2022
How To Create Closure Post-Heartbreak: Four Science-Backed Strategies
How To Create Closure Post-Heartbreak: Four Science-Backed Strategies
Don’t stay stuck waiting for closure. Try these proven methods to reclaim your sanity and move on.
Manj Bahra
Jan 19, 2024
The Science Of Going No-Contact and Why It Works
The Science Of Going No-Contact and Why It Works
Confused about going no-contact? Let science decide for you.
Manj Bahra
Mar 29, 2023
How To Save Your Relationship
How To Save Your Relationship
Proven ideas to rekindle the magic and have a breakthrough
Manj Bahra
May 22, 2021
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