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The ABCs of Narcissism 1: the A’s

Abuse by Proxy, Anticipation, Antisocial Personality Disorder and Apology

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Hello! There’s so much to learn about narcissism that, for the moment you finally work out you’ve been a target, victimised and gaslit all this time, I’ve put together a quick reference glossary over a series of articles under each letter of the alphabet to help you understand and begin recovery.




Fear, obligation, guilt… tales of coercive control, narcissism, sociopathy, psychopathy, machavellianism and advice and strategies for moving on from destructive relationships.

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Alexis Behrend

Alexis Behrend

Mother, author, poet, educator, escapee. Obsessed with finding ease in relationships, health, wellbeing and the juggling of life.

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