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Blaming Women for Sexual Assault(It’s Bad Enough When Men Do It. But Why Would a Woman?)

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When women go against women, it gives more credibility to the misconception that women are to blame.

I couldn’t believe what I was hearing.

This past week I came across two women who said that women were at least partially responsible for sexual harassment and assault.

Why would a woman go against other women when the #MeToo movement affects them just the same?

It’s bad enough when men silence women’s voices. But why would a woman do the same?

Any guesses?

· A way to keep anxiety at bay; because they fear it could happen to them?

· Deeply held religious convictions? (This only happens to ‘bad’ girls. Not those who are devoted to faith).

· Personal reasons?

These are just guesses.

But, based on my experience and research, here’s one of the main reasons a woman would go against the #MeToo movement:

It hasn’t happened to them.

These women have not experienced a sexual assault. That’s why it’s so hard for them to understand.

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Charlotte Allison, M.A.
Charlotte Allison, M.A.

Written by Charlotte Allison, M.A.

Master of Arts degree in spiritual psychology. Writing is a tool for healing. When you heal your self, you help to heal the planet as well.

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