On Being a Cool Girl and Catching Feelings

Spoiler alert — you can’t do both.

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I want to be a cool girl.

The type of girl a guy wants to hang out with, make dinner with, be lazy, and watch t.v. with. The kind of girl to go on adventures with, party with, and travel with. Then the kind of girl that he wants to kiss, to touch, to lust after. And it’s all so great and simple because he…




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Ashley Shannon

Ashley Shannon

Thirty something queer mom of two, one with autism. Lover of sushi, coffee, and wine. Living a life of travel. Top Writer ashleyshannononmedium@gmail.com

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