Are current dating apps making us unfaithful and promiscuous?

Medha Mehta
GoGaga
Published in
3 min readJul 2, 2018

Polygamy is defined as the practice of having more than one partner at the same time and promiscuous is being involved in indiscriminate mingling or association, especially having sexual relations with a number of partners on a casual basis. Why I felt the need to define that, it’s because this has become a very common concept nowadays. People cheating on each other or double dating is just something that happens, it’s becoming normal. But adultery or cheating on someone is never ‘normal’. There is nothing stud-like about dating two girls at the same time, you’re not clever if you string around two guys.

The society and the culture are going in a very wrong direction and we need to do something about it. Loyalty needs to come back in fashion, simply because it is not a trend, it is a way of life. It is a virtue that needs to exist within everyone by default. Do you think that dating apps could be the reason for this? Could the increased number of options that are available to us is something that is making us dishonest and deceitful?

I do believe that the increased number of choices make decisions more and more difficult. But it’s okay to choose both if there are food items or anything non-living in front of you. But do you think it is fair to lead two people on, at the same time? Since when is it cool to date two or more people and play with their hearts? That is something that is emerging as a result of the increased number of options available to us.

In a swipe right, swipe left situation, you don’t have the time to consider anything other than someone’s looks. You don’t give a lot of attention to anyone because hey, I always have more options. That is a big issue because that is leading to increased number of people being cheated upon, and they often stop believing in love and relationships.

Once more, a result of so many people being options, you talk to many at the same time. As a result, a real connection with none of them is established. There is nothing that makes you feel those butterflies. In search of the same, we get stuck on two or more and mess everything up. We need to get back to being loyal, honest and real relationships.

To solve all of these problems, GoGaga, a newly launched dating app has come into view. Here, connections are made through common friends. This means, that friends get to play matchmaker.

Through GoGaga, your friends get involved in your love life. They are the ones who look for genuine people and match them with you. The number of matches here are limited because they are genuine. These are people who your friend is familiar with, and so if there is something fishy, you’ll know. The relationships that are formed through this platform are not just casual, they mean something. Moreover, the focus is on a wholesome profile than just pictures.

So, make an account on GoGaga to get back to finding honest and loyal people, to find your special someone and form a real connection today.

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