Never Give Advice Again: How to Really Help by Giving Invisible Support
The Emotionally Intelligent Response to Others’ Problems
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6 min readNov 7, 2023
Even if we don’t bill ourselves as a “coach” or a “consultant,” people tell us about their problems. And with the best of intentions, we start doling out unsolicited advice. I learned from Ethan Kross’s book Chatter: The Voice In Our Head, Why it…