1 quality that turns you into a stronger person.

Rohit Sharma
ReaderLeader
Published in
2 min readDec 26, 2016

Forgiveness is power, a power given to you that can not do anything about the past but surely can change the future. No mistake is unforgiving. It takes some serious courage to forgive someone.

But let us think it the other way, who are we to punish anyone for her acts. We can get disappointed and tell them but being sad from them will affect energies of all.

It is really difficult to say sorry but to forgive someone is even more difficult and shows how strong you are.

More often we think about small things in life and hence get sad with people. Emotions are part of life but getting over them is the real way to live happily in the society.

Whenever you forgive you heal someone, when you let things go you grow stronger.

Forgiving gives a chance to the person and trust me sometimes you can change people by giving them a chance.

Action items -

Just think about that one incident due to which you are unhappy with someone. Now just think is the incident that important for you.

Even if that person or you dies today? Think !!!

I hope it is not and if I am right, message that person and just talk to them. Rest will follow.

Call anyone who is not happy with you and tell them that you are sorry.

And keep in mind about being very serious about you apologies.

If possible send them a gift which says sorry and ask for a new beginning. You can only try, if they still do not forgive you then it means they are not strong enough to forgive you and just move on in life.

Moral of the story is to forget everything and start forgiving. Because remembering will make you a stinky bin and forgiving will make you a stronger personality. Choice is Yours.

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Rohit Sharma
ReaderLeader

Author at ReaderLeader | Engineering leader at Amazon Go | 10+ years if industry experience