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Stop Caring About Little Embarrassments With Simple Psychology

The ‘spotlight effect’ fools us into thinking everyone sees our little moments

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I was onstage under lights, playing bass and keyboard in a ten-piece band in front of 300 students, with snot hanging off my chin.




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Alexander M. Combstrong

Alexander M. Combstrong

Research-backed ways to change your life for the better. Out now: The Confident Introvert’s Handbook. Actor/screenwriter. Forge, Better Humans, Mind Cafe.

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