why don’t you just go ahead and treat your woman with respect?

I mean, really, not just for an instant, of for a weekend, but across the board, making _respect_ an inherent part of how you treat her.

would it hurt?

doesn’t it hurt to not do that? don’t you feel like a lame ass, and if you don’t feel that way, why not? can’t you see that, when you treat her with disrespect, you’re acting like an ass?

here’s the cool part… treating her with respect is an essential part of being sexy; and I’m talking about the _real_ sexy, not the bullshit sexy.

you know the bullshit sexy, the “badass”, the “cool guy”, the “hot dude”… all those are superficial, and they won’t last. they might get the hot chick to start with, but your love affair will be painful and short lived.

now, if you start with respect, you can totally play with those ideas, but they’re just like costumes for a ball. she can play a part if she wants, too, but don’t get caught up thinking those represent your _real_ character.

please, don’t. we get too much of that crap in pop culture. those are the people that have gotten so good at _looking_ good, but it’s rare that someone can do that and have a truly loving, workable relationship.

I could be wrong, but the ones I see that actually work are guys like Brad Pitt and Will Smith. check them out, and you’ll see that they treat their women with respect.

oh, and their women? they treat their men with respect, too.

respect… it matters.