3 Obvious Reasons Why You Should Date Multiple People

Don’t let others tell you that you are a bad person because of it.

Julia Appa
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4 min readSep 23, 2021

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Dating is hard. It can be even harder when people judge us for how we date or who we date. Nowadays it seems that everyone’s got an opinion.

“Don’t meet him for drinks at 9 pm. He’s probably just trying to get in bed with you.”

“Don’t go on a coffee date. That is really low effort. If he wants to get to know you, he’s gotta invest more.”

“If he’s 10 minutes late, leave. He’s not respecting your time.”

There are probably a few more things that came to your mind when reading these 3 amazing, incredibly helpful tips. Sometimes it’s best to disregard our family’s and friends’ dating advice and simply do what feels right to us.

The argument against dating multiple people at the same time.

Many people say that it’s unfair to date multiple people at once and that it can be difficult if not impossible to build genuine connections. They claim that we are emotionally unavailable and very unlikely to pursue something more serious with either one of the people we’re seeing. Simply because we know that there could be someone better waiting around the corner.

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Julia Appa
Heart Affairs

Just a 23-year-old who’s obsessed with writing. Instagram: juliaminus_romeo