5 Things Guys Really Want To Hear When Sexting

What he wants you to know but probably won’t say.

Christopher Kokoski
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6 min readJan 4, 2022

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Man with cell phone — 5 Things Guys Really Want To Hear When Sexting
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Sexting is an incredible aphrodisiac for men.

While most men will happily receive any sexy text, there are five naughty things guys really want to hear — but may not tell you.

Here are those five things.

“Curiosity is the lust of the mind.” — Thomas Hobbes

What To Say To Turn Guys on When Sexting (5 Things He Wants You To Know)

If you want to get him all hot and bothered, a dirty text will do it every time.

Here are five things he probably longs to hear from the lady in his life:

1) What you want to do to him later (or him to do to you)

This is a great way to let a guy know that he’s on your mind, that the flirting is going to lead somewhere fun, and that the day is only going to get better.

Letting him know what you have planned for later will do wonders to keep him interested all day long.

The more descriptive, the better. Use foul language, be vulgar. He’ll probably eat it up.

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Christopher Kokoski
Heart Affairs

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