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Intimacy Has Consequences

Sometimes putting yourself out there hurts.

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“There is no intimacy without consequence.”
~ from All Our Wrong Todays by Elan Mastai

In the course of my life, I’ve found that many people dance around the edges of relationships. They get close, but not too close. They skirt around the periphery of…




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kasey sparks

kasey sparks

making mistakes · gathering lessons · sparking curiosity · finding meaning & magical moments in the midst of my messy life

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