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Marital Rape As Debt Payment

He said, “You owe me, I did a lot for you.”

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I have written a number of articles on Medium about my marriage and the complex experience of marital rape that I endured while I was married.

After writing Trigger Warning: Marital Rape After Surgery I remembered something about the rape incident recently that I had not written about.




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Poppy Nagano

Poppy Nagano

Researcher, cat mom, heirloom vegetable obsessed gardener.

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