By the time a woman hits her forties, she’s usually done giving men the benefit of the doubt to keep the peace. Experience has taught her that overlooking the minor signs early only leads to bigger problems later.
She’s not out to fix anyone, prove her worth, or hold out hope that things will “get better.” Now, when she spots trouble, she doesn’t rationalize it — she walks.
Here are the middle-aged men she’s learned to avoid like the plague, along with the ick-factor takeaways that might save you time, sanity, and your skincare budget.
The Baggage Dragger
This guy’s emotional GPS is still stuck in 2007.
Rundown:
He’s emotionally stuck in the past and wants you to join him there.
His favorite topics are his ex-wife, his ex’s new partner, and the deep injustice of the family court.
He hasn’t done any inner work because, in his words, “therapy is for people who can’t handle life.” As if suppressing feelings is some Olympic sport.
Don’t even try to talk about soul growth or personal development with him. He’ll only drag you through the mud of his unresolved drama until you need a spiritual…
