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Subtle Signs Your Relationship Is About to End
And you’re not gonna waste another year trying to “fix” it.
You lay in bed at midnight, constantly thinking, “How the hell can I fix this?” You know things are getting worse every day but you also feel like if you don’t do anything, your relationship will be over soon.
(Although in reality, it is already over)
Being in denial that your relationship falling apart and you’ll do whatever to save it is very common. If you’re feeling this way, you’re not alone. Not only now you feel like you’re responsible for the downfall of your relationship, but you also think it’s on you that this person is drifting apart.
But what if it’s not entirely your fault? What if your effort trying to fix is only delaying the breakup? You knew it was coming yet you don’t want to believe it.
I’ve experienced enough heartbreak to see if someone truly wants to fight for me. I now no longer bother to chase someone who doesn’t reciprocate my effort.
However, I know you still want to fix it but first, notice if you see these signs:
Silent treatment
A study done by Christine E. Rittenour et al. on “Socializing the Silent Treatment” noted that when a partner gives you the…