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Why Iron Man Is a Problem For Victims of Narcissistic Abuse

No, Tony Stark is not a narcissist.

Photo Credit: Chris Doornbos

He is a hero and sometimes also a little bit villain. He is handsome, charismatic, highly intelligent, and successful. He is Tony Stark. He is Iron Man. If you are female and enjoy Marvel, why wouldn’t you fantasize about dating him? Or someone like him.




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Kara Summers

Kara Summers

5x Top Writer. Raising awareness of emotional abuse and toxic relationships. Narcissistic Abuse Survivor.

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