One day, everybody gets fed-up
Having problems is part of our lives, takes time to deal with them and we act weird during a certain time. The mood changes, our emotions changes. We turn ourselves into a sub-version of whom we really are.
There's nothing wrong about it but the biggest mistake is to think that having a problem gives us the right to throw our own trash in other's people lives — usually the ones that are closer to us — , to believe that we can be irresponsible to other's feelings, to put our pain and difficulty above others.
As hard as it is the challenge we're facing, it's important to remember that everyone, without exception, is facing challenges in their own lives too, with some kind of problems that needs to be solved at some level. And it's not fair to throw our own trash in the road of someone else because, at the end of the day, every problem — except death — has a solution.
Sooner or later, the problem will be solved and then when we look around us we might notice that we're completely lonely just because those people, that used to always be by our side, got fed-up from dealing with their own problems plus getting rid off the mess we left into their lives too.
As human beings it's our nature to make mistakes, but we cannot insist in the same mistake, repeatedly, through all our lives and to expect people will understand it. An apology — which btw is increasingly rare — doesn't work anymore and there is no reparation, no forgiveness that will leads us back to the ones we lost
Instead of losing someone to start changing, think what you are doing today so that people may want to stay away from you. If we take for granted our beloved ones we might lose them because one day, everybody gets fed-up.
