Lets Hold a Weird Grudge

If i rammed into your car on purpose I would totally understand not only anger but maybe not wanting to move past it just right away (though if i did that we gotta think that there was some discord or i was crazy).

But i have hit my wall on stupid little things that i dont even know i am doing. Example I didnt call a friend back right away now they want me to grovel at their feet. Oh and i wasnt best friends with my last roomie….i went to see my parents on weekends, had different work hours, and fell in love but all that apparently makes me flakey.

And i get it ill say sorry and mean it if I hurt someone on any level if i dont know i am doing it. But its like people have this idea they are more superior the longer they hold a grudge or the best “i just dont know if i can get over this yet.” Fine im too old for this anymore. I dont try to ever hurt people if i do i apologize but i am done begging to be someones friend because I was working and didnt text them back.

How about this if i do something i dont mean to tell me so i can change and be a better friend…..or just ignore me your choice.