12 Tips for Single Men on Their Journey To Meet ‘The One’
You’ll date fascinating characters before you meet your “one,” so why not have fun and learn along the way?
As a psychotherapist specializing in sex and relationship issues, here are the top 12 suggestions I have found of most use to myself and my own clients in the search for a loving, lasting relationship.
1. Set aside your ego.
Dating is not for the hypersensitive. If the one particular person isn’t interested in you because of how you look or how you are in bed, remember that’s about them and their desires, not about you. Another person may want you because of the very thing this person doesn’t care for. Recognize that nothing is personal. Assure yourself that there’s nothing wrong with you.
2. Step out of your own way.
Listen to everyone’s opinions of you, remembering they’re 90 percent about themselves. However, there may be some kernel of truth to what their saying. Hear their words, whatever they may be, and decide for yourself what you think about them.
