27 Reasons Why Your Partner Isn’t as Happy in the Relationship as You

Qasim Adam
Hello, Love
Published in
10 min readFeb 6, 2022

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It’s no secret that relationships can be tough.

But it’s especially frustrating when you feel like you’re giving your all and your partner just isn’t as happy as you are.

You may be wondering what you’re doing wrong. Well, before you start blaming yourself, take a look at these 27 reasons why your partner might not be as content in the relationship as you are.

Chances are, some of these things are out of your control — but knowing what they are will help you handle them better in the future. So read on and see if any of these ring true for your situation.

1. You aren’t surprising your partner.

If you’re always going out of your way to surprise your partner with a random gift, a date night or a loving message, chances are they will feel more valued and happier in the relationship. It can be as easy as leaving them a sticky note on their laptop with an encouraging message before they head off to work.

2. You keep bringing up their past

Maybe you keep bringing up their past because you want to warn them about their mistakes so they don’t repeat them. But if you’re constantly doing that, it may be a sign that you just can’t get over…

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Qasim Adam
Hello, Love

Blogger, author, and freelancer. Top writer on Medium in Love, Life Lessons, Psychology, Parenting, and Relationships.