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3 Non-Sexual Qualities Guaranteed to Make You More Attractive

And how you can develop them.

6 min readJul 21, 2020

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Picture this.

It’s a warm afternoon, and you’re in your favorite coffee shop, slowly sipping away your double espresso and minding your own business. A few minutes later, a couple walks in, and just by looking at them, you spot something odd.

They seem somewhat mismatched — as if they don’t belong with each other. You think to yourself, “If I were a match-maker, I’d probably allocate each of them a different partner.”

You’ve seen this more than once, right? So have I.

In my years as a cabin crew, it wasn’t unusual to see couples who appeared somewhat mismatched. You know, the lady would be drop-dead gorgeous, immaculately dressed with an aura of sophistication around her. He, on the other hand, well… let’s just say he didn’t look anything like her.

Do you know why we find this weird?

Because social media sells us the story that in order to attract a woman, you need to have specific sexual attributes like a defined six-pack, zero body fat, or huge muscly arms.

The truth? None of it is true.

Just look at divorce stories, and constant relationship dramas of couples whom the world thinks are…

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Leah Njoki
Leah Njoki

Written by Leah Njoki

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