Hello, Love
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Hello, Love

4 Reasons Why Chasing Love Isn’t Love

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When researching this topic, I came across two quotes that really summarized the two sides of this conversation.

On the one hand, we have this quote from the novel Call Me Irresistible, which says, “Chasing after a guy who’s not interested in you will rip the hell out of your self-respect. Better to face facts now because the longer you put it off, the harder it’ll be.”




Love changes us. Love makes us human.

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Jason Henry

Jason Henry

Former Edu. Psychologist | Current Writer | Constant Learner | “By your stumbling the world is perfected.”

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