4 Serious Questions You Need to Ask Yourself Before You Ask for Commitment
If you don’t, you may be inviting trouble into your life.
Many people end up in dead-end, loveless relationships because they settle out of loneliness or are ignorant of healthy dynamics.
They ignore red flags on the first date, but often the best lessons come from failure.
I was inspired to write this after I read Dating Sucks, but You Don’t, by Connell Barrett. It felt like a necessary read after my relationship ended with my fiancé because I churned through girls trying to find a new girlfriend.
The book is missing out on a fourth critical question.
I’m not a dating coach with an officially published book on Amazon, but I know this from experience. There’s more to “choosing” the right partner than identifying whether they’re compatible.
That’s the bare minimum.
I will walk you through his three main points (from my perspective) and one final, missing ingredient.
1. Are you sexually and emotionally compatible?
Does the relationship make sense?
When you’re dating, is there a good balance between passion (sex) and intimacy…