4 Things Men Think Make Them Attractive (But it Doesn’t)

Claire Lowe
Hello, Love
Published in
5 min readJun 2, 2022

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Being attractive gives you an unfair advantage in dating. But what if I told you people do it wrong because they don’t know what makes them attractive?

Attractiveness is unique to each person.

You may think you do your part: work out, have an exciting career, dress up, and behave nicely. Still, your efforts don’t work. You can’t find a girlfriend even if your life depended on it.

There’s nothing wrong with you.

Imagine you want to lose weight, so you do push-ups every day. Except push-ups help you build muscle, not lose weight. You should’ve done aerobic exercises instead.

It’s not about putting in more effort. You have to do the right things.

Dating works the same way. Maybe you’re doing your part, but you don’t have results because you focus on the wrong things.

Here are the things that men think are attractive, but they’re not:

1. Fighting in bars.

The days when the “macho man” was sexy are gone.

The macho man is the guy who uses his masculinity to justify his actions. He picks a fight in bars to “defend the lady’s honor.” He believes muscles make him a man. He never lets anything hurt his ego.

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Claire Lowe
Hello, Love

Self-proclaimed writer. I write for creators, lovers, and curious people. Open to gigs: claireslowe@hotmail.com