4 Things Your Urge to Cheat is Desperately Trying to Tell You
But you simply won’t listen.
Have you ever felt the urge to cheat on your partner? It’s like an uninvited voice in your mind saying, “what would happen if you slept with Chad?” or “Chuck looks great tonight; I want to eat him alive.”
You may even feel embarrassed for having these thoughts. But you don’t have to. They’re not evil; they’re here to help you.
What if these thoughts told you something important?
Every emotion has a purpose (even the weird ones). Your urge to cheat is no exception. All you have to do is listen. And what this annoying voice says can either make or break your relationship.
So listen carefully:
1. Your human needs are in danger.
Relationships exist to fulfill your needs.
Before you call me selfish, think about it. Here’s a list of needs your relationship fulfills:
- Socialization.
- Sexual needs.
- Feeling of safety.
- Feeling of being loved.
It’s no wonder you want a relationship so badly. When it’s done correctly, it checks multiple boxes at the same time. But when it’s done…
