4 Toxic Arguing Styles That Sabotage Your Relationship
It’s all about finding the right way to argue.
I don’t know about you, but I'm the kind of person who hates arguing and do my best to avoid it. Some people consider it fun to debate a political issue or argue about a current event with their partner — I’m not one of them.
Yet, I’ve come to realize that conflict is inevitable and a normal part of any relationship. According to a survey, an average couple argues 156 times every year over where to order dinner from. Imagine all the other sensitive issues you have to deal with — and argue about — in a relationship.
All couples have arguments. What matters is how you deal with that conflict and how you solve all your arguments. There is a difference between sitting down and working through a problem together versus shouting, crying, or giving your partner the silent treatment.
If you and your partner have a toxic arguing style, it could sabotage your relationship and tear you apart. What follows are four toxic arguing styles and how you can change them so that your relationship doesn’t fall apart.
1. Criticizing/Accusing Your Partner
A lot of people, when they argue with their partners, tend to let frustration, anger, and…
