Hello, Love
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Hello, Love

5 Sensible Reasons Why We Shouldn’t Idealize Love and Romance

I think that by de-idealizing it, we can paradoxically come to appreciate it even more.

1. No one can be everything to you

No one is perfect. If you love someone, they will disappoint you. They will let you down. It’s inevitable.



Love changes us. Love makes us human.

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James Gordon

Works full-time as a technical writer. MFA in Creative Writing. Blogs about movies, mental health, relationships, and other topics. Plays piano as a passion.