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5 Simple Flirting Tips that Every Man Should Know
Stay away from the Friend Zone.
Most men scare women off like he’s wearing torn, dirty clothes while driving a big white van with no windows.
It’s pretty sad.
Most men get their “education” from books, social media, and porn, yet they grow up thinking that hiding their sexuality behind a friendly façade will do the trick. On the flip side, he might believe that simply walking up to her and telling her she’s hot, using manipulation, or any other ill-advised behavior will give him the validation he desperately needs.
Since working on the external validation piece is a topic for another article, I’m going to focus on what a man can do to improve his flirting. Then he can at least communicate with women who are hopefully not major construction zones.
Inauthentic or manipulative behavior is rooted in fear, which demands swinging hard to the left or right. Slip in through the Friend Door or clobber her with aggression or manipulation. All of them are ways to mitigate rejection yet increase its likelihood significantly.
Perhaps you’ve read The Game and have mastered whatever Red Pill tactics you’ve come across, but in my experience, this leads to short-term situationships that eventually explode spectacularly. It’s…
