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7 Reasons the Narcissist Picked You

You were exactly what they were looking for.

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Are you wondering why you’re attracting narcissists? It could be your upbringing. If you were born into a dysfunctional family and grew up codependent, you’re easy prey for a narcissist. Here are 7 reasons the narcissist picked you.

You put them up on a pedestal.




Love changes us. Love makes us human.

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L.A. Strucke

L.A. Strucke

Writer, Songwriter. Published in Chicken Soup for the Soul, Highlights for Children and Guideposts. Editor of The Creative Project.

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