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7 Things You Definitely Don’t Need to Attract Women

Do they help? Yes, but they’re not the end all be all.

Ayodeji Awosika
Hello, Love
Published in
8 min readOct 30, 2021

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Six-figures in the bank, six-pack abs, six feet tall, and a six-inch (or longer) penis.

This is a meme that’s gone around the internet about what a man needs to attract women.

Of course, it’s not true. You don’t need to be a superhuman, mega-rich, lover extraordinaire to get women to like you. The thought that you need to get a woman to like you comes from a terrible headspace, too.

An iron-clad rule of dating: You can’t make anyone like you. You can only interact with people and let the chips fall where they may. That’s what you should do instead of thinking you need to be more than you already are.

A piece of advice from The Last Psychiatrist:

Become the kind of man who understands that he doesn’t have to be [famous, or rich] to get a woman, and if he does, he doesn’t want her. And she doesn’t want him, either.

Are some of these qualities I’m about to list attractive to some women some of the time? Absolutely. Can they help your dating life? Undoubtedly. Let’s not pretend that upgrading yourself in…

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Ayodeji Awosika
Hello, Love

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