Hello, Love
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Hello, Love

A Year of Casual Sex With Random Men Led Me to the Perfect Guy

I sowed my wild oats and got practice.

Photo by Jonas Wilson.

I went to bed with a lot of men after my divorce. I knew most of them weren’t right for me. I had sex with them anyway.

Can you believe this technique ultimately led me to meet “The One.”

What’s “The One”?




Love changes us. Love makes us human.

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Mysterious Witt

Mysterious Witt

I write about sex and relationships. Part-time dominatrix & author of “Sex-Starved,” a Memoir. Treat me to a coffee: ko-fi.com/mysteriouswitt

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