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May 25, 2021

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Are You The Reacher Or The Settler?

Ever heard of the reacher/settler debate? Jordan Gray has something new to say about it.

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By Jordan Gray

Are you settling in your relationship?

According to Dean C. Delis, author of The Passion Trap, every relationship has a reacher and a settler.

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