Ask Dr. NerdLove: Am I Leading On My Ex?

Am I overthinking this? Am I mind-reading him?

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By Harris O’Malley

Dear Dr. NerdLove:

This is the first time I (she/her) am making an effort to stay friends with my ex (he/him). We’ve been together for three years, sharing an apartment for 1.5 years. I ended things 4 months ago and moved out 1 month ago.