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Balancing Love and Purpose:
Navigating Relationships and Personal Goals
Falling in love with someone can simultaneously be the most beautiful and terrifying experience. On the one hand, love can overcome seemingly insurmountable obstacles and shine a light on the darker corners of our souls. Love is the force that binds us together and fosters connection and intimacy. In this sense, love is one of life’s greatest sources of meaning.
On the other hand, the very vulnerability at the core of love makes it so frightening. Opening ourselves up to another person means allowing that person to see us as we truly are, with all our faults and imperfections. This can be a scary and painful process.
Furthermore, to pursue certain personal goals and realize our unique sense of purpose, we sometimes need to step back from our romantic partner to focus on ourselves and our growth. If not managed properly, this can create distance in the relationship and lead to a breakup. What should we do if we want both, as in achieving our life’s purpose and enjoying love?
Prioritizing Personal Goals: Why Purpose Matters
Why do some people prioritize their relationships over their personal goals, whereas others strive to achieve a balance or make their relationship enhance their life’s…
