Can a Cup of Coffee Destroy a Relationship?

Little things are very big deals.

Stacey Herrera
Hello, Love
Published in
4 min readSep 15, 2021

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A couple of days ago, I confessed to my partner. I revealed a shameful secret that I had been carrying for nearly three weeks.

It was a simple thing, really, but it morphed into something else all because I was too ashamed to come clean.

Now I’m going to confess it to you because shame loses its thunder when it’s acknowledged and shared... So here goes…

… my partner had a jam-packed day ahead of him, and he was leaving early.

So while he was in the shower, I decided to make him a cup of coffee for the road.

He has one of those single-cup Keurig deals that even a coffee novice can operate with little thought. I poured water into the reservoir before removing the old k-cup and inserting a new one. A clean coffee mug was already resting beneath the spout, ready to receive the hot, fragrant java.

In a matter of minutes, the coffee was free-falling into my partner’s oversized BEST DAD mug. But instead of stopping when the mug was 3/4’s full like it usually does, it kept going and going and going.

I pressed the stop button just seconds before it overflowed.

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Stacey Herrera
Hello, Love

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