Did You Marry the Love of Your Life? For Men the Answer Often Is “Not Really”

A woman is madly in love and the man reciprocates. At least, that’s what she believes.

Chris Lopez
Hello, Love
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14 min readAug 23, 2024

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POLARITY FOR DIFFERENT POLES

Men and women are opposite. Polarity is like the north and south poles. Despite opposite locations there is attraction between the two. The north pole is ice cold. The south pole is ice cold. These similarities do not negate the fact their climates are vastly different.

We all crave to feel love. Commitment, loyalty, and sacrifice are three great attributes to inhabit a loving relationship.

There is a difference between feeling love and obtaining love.

Women want to feel these items. Men want to see them in practice. The poles of polarity inhabit the masculine and feminine. Sometimes this polarity means the woman your husband felt madly in love with is not you.

MOST MEN DO NOT MARRY THE LOVE OF THEIR LIFE

This sounds strange. I’m sure you want to fact check this. If you are reading this article there is a part of you which wants to react. I can feel my women readers impulses as I type these letters.

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Chris Lopez
Hello, Love

Best Selling Author of “I Made it Then I Didn’t” & Co-Author with Kevin Harrington "Many Paths To Profit". I write truths today to combat yesterday's falsehood.