Digesting My Partner’s Sexual History

While being plagued by inadequacy and insecurity.

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Reading through my handful of cards last night at the table, I felt triggered on every possible level. I was sitting, safely, at the kitchen table, playing a few rounds of “Where Should We Begin”, a game developed by Ester Perel, LMFT, and renowned sex therapist. I should have felt safe. But I didn’t.