Do High Value Men Have Access To High Value Women?

A man declares his value but so does a woman. Does a high value man really get his value equivalency?

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THE TRUTH OF EQUIVALENCY

There’s this big misconception about reciprocity. We assume two positives are going to multiply. We think there is this undeniable attraction to each other. Sometimes nothing could be further from the truth.

I get it.

Some assume because some others tell them they are high value they will get their equivalent. There’s a trick in this thought. Remember people say a lot of things. People hold a lot of opinions. The consensus is not a fact.

A consensus just means many people hold the same opinion. What is the trick to this thought I mentioned earlier? The people holding this opinion are not your equivalency.

LOSERS SAYING THEY ARE WINNERS

Positive support is great. People rally around each other to lift each other up. I understand positive reinforcement. It’s wonderful to have a cheerleading squad but what happens when losers are cheering other losers?

That’s not a slight. I’m not demeaning anyone. There are actual winners and losers in competitions. If you lose, you’re a loser. This doesn’t…