Five Seemingly Attractive Personality Traits That Ruin a Relationship

They are all often cute. Until they aren’t.

Leah Njoki
Hello, Love

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You loved that she was a health freak.

She looked sexy and fabulous. Your health was in safe hands.

Now?

It’s downright annoying because she dictates what you eat and how much you eat.

You loved his passion for music.

Now?

He does nothing but work on his music all day.

And?

His voice irritates you because it reminds you of the things he’s failing to do as a husband.

When you first meet someone, you rarely know you want to be with them for life.

Sure, you might feel that initial attraction, but it’s usually just a surface-level sort of feeling.

But once you get past that, something else starts to unfold.

You start to see traits of the person that are much more powerful than the initial attraction or liking.

These traits then become the basis of your decision to pursue a long-term relationship.

You’re so attracted to a specific trait that just like that, you decide, “This is the one.”

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Leah Njoki
Hello, Love

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