How Easy Is It To Land A Relationship?

It’s not the impossible endeavour the modern single assumes it is.

Ellen McRae
Feb 24 · 6 min read
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When you’re in your late teens, dancing around the cusp of adulthood, finding a lover often seems effortless.

It’s impossible if you’re not putting yourself out there

It’s impossible if you’re not letting your feelings known

It’s impossible if you’re not exhausting dating resources

It’s impossible if you’re not committed to the process

Dating is in your control

Hello, Love

Love changes us. Love makes us human.

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