How I Attracted My Dream Partner by Working on Myself First

When you become someone you’re proud of, you attract people who match that energy.

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Seven years ago, I was going through a difficult phase in my life. I was struggling financially, my ex-girlfriend had broken up with me, and I didn’t know what I wanted to do in life.

I was a twenty-five-year-old who was utterly lost.

None of my past relationships had lasted more than a year, so I developed a feeling that I was unlovable and that something was seriously wrong with me.

I could hardly remember anything good about my life at the time.

Things got even worse when the college I applied for rejected my application.

In the meantime, my friends were living their best lives. I envied them and could only imagine myself ever being happy again.

The realization to focus on myself

After months of sorrow and pain, I knew I had to do something about it. I couldn’t just waste away my twenties doing nothing. The first thing that came to mind was focusing on my well-being.

The first step was to get into good physical and mental shape.