How to Adopt an Evolutionary Mindset to Sustain Your Relationship
Are you dating without updating?
We know how to date in today’s relationships, but we don’t know how to update. In marriage, we have to understand we are marrying a stage because he or she will change. We date and marry a person in different stages of their life.
Couples will have to learn to evolve as their feelings change to have a lasting relationship. An intimate and healthy relationship is based on trust, vulnerability, and flexibility, which means sharing your innermost feelings, thoughts, and desires and accepting your emotional differences.
If your partner is vague or difficult to overcome, there is cause for concern. Relationships based on mistrust are on unstable ground, and these are four aspects you can adjust to build a lasting relationship.
Stop looking for the right person
One major criteria people look for when choosing a mate is if she’s the right person. You want them to possess all the qualities on your checklist.
You have to stop searching for the right person and start being the right person. Because if you are the wrong person and the right person comes along, you make the right person the wrong person because you are the wrong person.
