How To Ask A Girl Out (10 Tips To Help Her Say Yes)

Joe Elvin
Hello, Love
Published in
4 min readJul 14, 2022

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Women get very nervous about the prospect of a first date with a stranger.

That’s partly why flaking and ghosting are so rife in modern dating.

You could approach a woman in the most fun, charming and charismatic way. You could be incredibly attractive in her eyes. But if you do the tiniest thing to make her feel awkward about meeting you for a date, she’s probably not going to go.

It’s no big deal for an attractive woman to cancel dates. Most likely, she has an army of romantic candidates inside her Tinder or Instagram DMs. So, there’s no reason for her to go on a date that makes her feel even a tiny bit worried.

With that in mind, here are 10 tips to make it easier for a woman to say YES to going on a date with you — and to actually turn up.

1. Ask her out at the first opportunity

This is what confident guys do. Cowards like to wait for an IOI, be ‘friends first’ or wait for the ‘perfect moment.’ But she doesn’t want to date a coward.

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Joe Elvin
Hello, Love

I help men to escape their comfort zones, improve their self-esteem and make smarter dating decisions. Buy my book 'Big Dick Energy' at https://amzn.to/3HxnwiH