Hello, Love
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Hello, Love

How to Know Someone is THE One

Start by getting rid of your wish list.

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I once kept a mental wish list of mostly superficial characteristics that I measured against potential romantic partners. I wanted them to be a certain height, drive a particular caliber of vehicle, look and dress a certain way. There were less shallow items mixed in, but the bulk of my rationale focused on external attributes.




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