How to Make Every Man Want You
What if I told you that, a few minutes from now, I could share information that could make you happier, healthier, and more attractive in a matter of minutes?
What if I told you this same information could transform the quality of your love life forever?
What if you knew the secret to being irresistibly attractive and what it takes to enjoy healthy, satisfying relationships without being manipulative or fake?
What if you didn’t have to play games, follow the rules, or
be calculating to get what you want? Would you be interested? Would you spend a minute or so with me? Would you like to be so damn irresistible
you’ll barely keep from dating yourself?
If the idea of being authentic, expressive, and irresistible is of interest to you — and I hope it is — then you are in the right place.
How to Make Every Man Want You is designed to
incite a complete life transformation. You’ll find new possibilities you’ve never before imagined at work, at play, with
family and friends — and all without requiring very much
effort on your part (don’t you just love that?).
You may wonder about the title, Make Every Man Want
You. You may say, “I don’t want every man to want me — just
one good man would be enough!” Well, I have a confession.
I’ve whipped up an intriguing title to trick you into reading
this book. You see, what you’re about to learn is a radical
new approach to being completely irresistible, inside and
out, and how to have magnificent relationships with everyone in your life.
Some of what you are about to learn will be the complete opposite of what you have believed or been taught in
the past about relationships. You have got to keep in mind
that you would not be reading this article unless there was
some aspect of your ability to relate that wasn’t working
for you.
Here is my first tip: when something does not work in
your life, assume that you are operating on false information. Don’t worry — this is not a problem. It is a blessing. It means you have become aware that you are off track and have already taken the first step to correct
course. With an open mind and willingness to lead an irresistible lifestyle, you’re about to discover a whole new I-can’t believe-it-could-be-this-good world of love, relationship,
and authentic partnership that is available and waiting.
I Will be giving you a Book on this topic and I will show you How to Get the Most Out of This Book.
This book is designed to enlighten, entertain, and transform. Where appropriate, I’ve included thought-provoking
questions to spark insight and irresistible action challenges
to help you implement this material to create lasting and meaningful shifts in your life.
If you’d like some extra guidance and support, I’ve created a free online Irresistible Action Guide that includes all
the exercises in this book as well as a complimentary four-week audio coaching program to help you stay inspired and
on track. Click Here to get the E-book and other free resources.
Remember, reading and understanding something is
light-years away from actually doing it. I could read how to-write-a-self-help-book book all day long and understand
that I need to have an idea, an outline, a computer, and a
printer. But if I don’t sit myself down and actually write,
that self-help book will never come into existence! The same
thing applies to you, dear reader. You must practice being
irresistible if you want to make every man want you.
Intellectualizing is not enough.
This book is about using awareness to melt away previously hidden tendencies and behaviors that sabotage
your relationships. So let's get back to our discussion. In my experience, when you become aware of a behavior that’s been getting in your way and
simply notice it — without judging yourself for what you
discover — that behavior melts away on its own. Nonjudgmental awareness facilitates effortless resolution. Seeing is
really enough. When you see yourself, without judgment,
you dissolve the conditioning from your past.
This approach is not about setting a goal to be who you
think would be a better, more irresistible you. When you
set out to be better or get better, two things happen. First,
you’re making a blanket statement into the universe that
you are broken and need fixing. This keeps you locked in a
dissatisfying mental thought loop of “I’m not good enough
yet.” Second, you’ll likely resist those habits or tendencies
that your mind considers bad, and because (as you’ll learn)
anything we resist persists, those habits and tendencies
tend to stick around. Want proof? Just take a look at how
often you’ve made and stuck to New Year’s resolutions and
you’ll see that the be-a-better-you approach is not extremely
effective.
You may be thinking, “I’m confused. How can I notice
something I’m doing to get in my own way without judging
it or making a statement into the universe that something’s
wrong with me?” Here’s how.
Adopt a gentle, inquisitive approach to self-discovery. Be
innocently curious. When you see something about yourself, say, “Oh . . . interesting” or “Huh, look at that.” Simply
observe what exists without trying to change it. Stop pressuring yourself to embody some elusive, idealized standard
you’ve created in your mind of the “perfect” you.
Despite popular belief, you can be fully invested in growth and
learning without having an underlying problem to fix.
For example, I know I’m a good dancer and I’m always
willing to expand my abilities. When I find a new dance
move challenging, I investigate to see if there’s something I
may be doing (or not doing) that’s preventing me from getting the move. I try different things with my body. I may
ask other dancers and teachers for help. I’m truly interested in seeing, growing, and learning. Sometimes I find
the move through my own exploration; other times a fellow dancer is able to point out what I can’t see on my own.
Then I say, “Oh. I see now. Thanks.” And that’s enough.
Transformation. Expansion. Growth. And all done from a
spirit of self-discovery — not self-reproach.
The fastest way to see results in this or any other program is to team up with other people. Countless studies
prove that those who exercise with partners tend to lose
weight faster, keep it off longer, and feel more satisfied
and supported in the process. Being irresistibly “in shape”
is no different. When you connect with others, you drop
unwanted behaviors faster, stay true to yourself more consistently, and feel a greater sense of love and support along
the way.
Talk about what you learn with friends, sisters, brothers, coworkers, moms, coaches — anyone with whom you
feel a special connection. The magic that is produced when
two or more people come together to hold a shared vision
is miraculous.
This book is yours. Use it fully. Try on the concepts.
Complete every exercise. Experiment and discover your truth. Allow the magic on the pages to support you in
expressing the power, enchantment, and sensuality you
have waiting inside.
The world needs that smart, funny, beautiful woman
you’ve been dying to unleash. It’s my honor to show you
the way. Let’s go!
