How to Turn Rejection into Attraction in Just 15 Minutes

Guys, if you’re struggling to get a second date, this might be why.

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Imagine you’ve been friends with a girl for years. You finally think, “Maybe this is it. Maybe she’s the one.” You’re ready for your aha moment. Then one day, out of the blue, she says, “You know, Bob… you’re going to make some girl so happy someday.”

In that instant, your heart is crushed. Game over before it even started. Without her saying the actual words, you’ve already been rejected.

Bummer!

And guys don’t just brush that off. Oh no! Men get rejected hard. I’ve seen it happen, and I’ve felt it myself. The pattern is almost always the same. One brutal rejection, and boom — they shut down. They swear off approaching women ever again. They retreat into their caves, licking their wounds, and then years later… they’re signing up for dating coaches, wingmen for hire, or even matchmaking services just to avoid putting themselves out there.

Look at The Bachelor. I don’t even watch it to the end, but come on — the fact that these dudes need a nationally televised dating tournament with a production team, dramatic rose ceremonies, and constant coaching just to pick a woman? That tells you something. Left to their own devices, a lot of men…