I Am My Mother’s Son Not My Father’s Man

Empathetic, compassionate and available for connection is not genuinely a male trait.

Chris Lopez
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11 min readNov 14, 2024

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EASILY MISUNDERSTOOD

There is a tendency to assume. With people, optics and perceptions define them. Whether there is the truth or not is not pertinent. The relevance of facts, context or even established fact is generally too much effort. There is a saying. The saying goes like this.

“If it walks like a duck and talks like a duck it’s probably a duck.”

What happens if someone is duck hunting and wading through the water in pattern to mimic ducks to ensure they do not scare ducks away?

This is a good analogy for most. As most do not understand how a person can value the opposite sex for their opinions, insights, and genuine closeness. It is a rarity to many. How many men do you really know who have genuine women friends?

I’m guessing none.

AN UNDISCIPLINED & WILD SOCIETY

In this western society the dynamic between men and women is very simple. Largely, these dynamics are defined by people who cannot help themselves from base level impulses. I mean that assessment whole heartedly.

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Chris Lopez
Chris Lopez

Written by Chris Lopez

Best Selling Author of “I Made it Then I Didn’t” & Co-Author with Kevin Harrington "Many Paths To Profit". I write truths today to combat yesterday's falsehood.

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