I Became The Intimacy Consultant For My Friends

How I ended up as the guru of the bedroom, and why I accepted the role happily.

Ellen McRae
Feb 23 · 6 min read
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Ten years ago, if you had a problem in the bedroom, you would come to me.

This Is How My Guru Status Started

Cementing My Guru Role

The ‘Advice’ Consultations

So Who Are You In Your Friendships?

Are You Happy With Your Role?

It’s Ok To Change Your Role

Am I Still A Guru?

Hello, Love

Love changes us. Love makes us human.

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